Saturday, May 14, 2011

signs that he doesn't love you anymore

as a woman,we tend to have insight that men just don't have. That's why we are often aware that something is amiss in our relationship even before our guy confesses it. It may be something subtle that he has or hasn't done or perhaps he's said something that has made you feel that things have changed. Regardless, once you get that nagging feeling that he's on the verge of breaking up with you, it's almost impossible to get rid of it.
He may tell you that everything is fine and that you're just imagining all of it, but your heart tells you differently. If you feel that things aren't heading in the direction you want within your relationship, don't ignore that. There are signs that your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore that you need to be aware of. If you spot these in your relationship you know that you need to do some dramatic damage control before you lose him forever.

One of the signs he doesn't want to be with you anymore is he'll spend less time with you. That seems straightforward enough but many men are masters at coming up with believable excuses for why they can't see you. They may say that work has suddenly taken a turn towards busy or they have a sick friend who is relying heavily on them to help with day-to-day tasks. Men like this tend to have a list of excuses that seem completely believable however at the end of the day it all adds up to him spending less and less time with you. If he isn't putting seeing you above everything else in his life, that's a sign that you're not that important to him anymore.
Another of the signs that your guy is pulling away from you is he'll be less attentive to you in person and on the phone. When a relationship is going well the man will be quick to pick up the phone when his girlfriend calls regardless of who he's with or what he's doing. When that shifts and he rarely answers or never returns voice mail messages, he's definitely losing interest. The same can be said for the time you two spend in person. If he's in a rush to leave or he's checking his phone every few minutes while he's visiting with you, his interest is elsewhere.
If he's stopped telling you that he loves you, don't take that as a sign that he's feeling secure and comfortable within the relationship. The opposite is more than likely the case. When a man stops sharing his feelings it's because he's no longer feeling them as strongly. You can test this theory by telling him that you love him. If he changes the subject or says a simple "me too" that may be a sign that the love he did feel for you at one point just isn't there anymore.

4 comments:

  1. Yo completly right.. we need to. be aware of those signs.. too bad ts too late fo me to realise that.. my bf changed alot, gt no time fo me. He's so busy wit work but when it comes he wants to go out with friends dunno cuznz he gat that. time. Talkin less at night asking me to understand as his having long days at work :( i love him so much. buh seriously i jus cant hold on anymore.. am goin to set him free fo good. Thankx fo the advice dear

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  2. Yo completly right.. we need to. be aware of those signs.. too bad ts too late fo me to realise that.. my bf changed alot, gt no time fo me. He's so busy wit work but when it comes he wants to go out with friends dunno cuznz he gat that. time. Talkin less at night asking me to understand as his having long days at work :( i love him so much. buh seriously i jus cant hold on anymore.. am goin to set him free fo good. Thankx fo the advice dear

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  3. Yo completly right.. we need to. be aware of those signs.. too bad ts too late fo me to realise that.. my bf changed alot, gt no time fo me. He's so busy wit work but when it comes he wants to go out with friends dunno cuznz he gat that. time. Talkin less at night asking me to understand as his having long days at work :( i love him so much. buh seriously i jus cant hold on anymore.. am goin to set him free fo good. Thankx fo the advice dear

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  4. Yo completly right.. we need to. be aware of those signs.. too bad ts too late fo me to realise that.. my bf changed alot, gt no time fo me. He's so busy wit work but when it comes he wants to go out with friends dunno cuznz he gat that. time. Talkin less at night asking me to understand as his having long days at work :( i love him so much. buh seriously i jus cant hold on anymore.. am goin to set him free fo good. Thankx fo the advice dear

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