tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-70278166845277751342024-02-20T20:12:08.933-08:00what is love?This blog is about love. Because Love is so beautiful and also can make us down. Love is a mistery. Let's find out about love.Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-85548723464474384352011-11-02T13:42:00.000-07:002011-11-02T13:42:09.911-07:00Women From Venus, Men From Mars, thus roughly in part as far as what people describe their differences. Arrive at a relationship that has existed too, sometimes they do not know the cause and consequence of an act of the opposite sex. The following are tips to know the cause why the guy break his girlfriend.<br />
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1. Bored. You guys might get bored with a relationship that has been running all these years, could get bored with a relationship that does not evolve towards a more serious, bored with your attitudes that would not go into as he wanted or bored with you physically. Tip: make your relationship feels colorless and monotonous, for example, once you change the appearance / haircut and up-to-date on fashion, Take him to pioneer the business together as articles that have been my previous post: Tips Business With Your Love, Show seriousness of her relationship that has existed several years, either by a formal engagement ceremony, or just engage him to be present at an internal event of your family.<br />
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2. Third person. The third man is the most powerful factor in triggering a guy leave his girlfriend. A guy will choose his new girlfriend, and left his old girl-based consideration of the advantages of the new girl, which is adjusted to their needs, could be because of her beauty, sexuality, intelligence or wealth. Tip: There is no other way to tie a guy you are to always be beside you, except to be yourself completely from the outset of your relationship is established. Because then there will be no regrets, when at last he left you, yet you have to give best for him.<br />
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3. Bound Too Tight. Men Need Space, is the most appropriate phrase to describe the guy needs to be 'space'. They tend to need 'space' for their own needs such as: hanging out with the opposite sex, or just communicate with their communities to pursue his hobby. Limit because your attitude will only make it possessive 'agitated', depressed and feel uncomfortable. Because the guy will actually feel appreciated when he believed. Tip: Try to always give confidence to him by giving him the freedom to mix and mingle with friends and environment, and biarkankan he carry out his hobby-course in a positive way.<br />
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4. Disappointed With Your Family. One factor to be considered a guy continue to survive is because of his family, such as how welcome they are against you, the extent to which he valued and how he fits with your family. The guy is a person who tends to give priority to logic rather than emotion, so as to external factors in the category of judgments against you. So it is not rare, a guy who left his girlfriend because the parents are not appreciated his girlfriend. Tip: Clever bridge the differences that might arise between you guys and your parents. Damping friction that might arise, so as if they no conflict between them. For example, when your parents do not like the guy your current job, to say it another way and relaxed manner.<br />
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5. Low self-esteem. Insecure guy to his girlfriend could be due to many factors, such as family wealth is far more rich girl, position / title girl of higher, more brilliant career girl or girls that have guy friends who are much more cool. Tip: Try to make you not too dominant. Lift back her confidence, either through words or your actions. Show that although you do have advantages compared to your guy, you still show your love and respect him. Respect his opinions, because only it is still 'left' for you.<br />
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6. There is no certainty. Not only the girls who need assurances as to the relationship, the guy too. If she might be caused due to aging, while boys more because of his strong desire to raise a family, given the readiness both in terms of mental and material. Some guys just tend to be impatient to wait indefinitely girlfriend prioritize and pursue a career relationship, because he assumed that the household is their responsibility. If they have been able to fulfill it, why do girls have to pursue a career at the expense of the relationship of love with him. Tip: Set a time limit 'expectation' that if you can understand together.Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-72256728473516480042011-10-20T22:48:00.001-07:002011-10-20T22:48:31.815-07:00What is the meaning of life partner?Life partner, is the word for someone who always be with us and together with us fight this world.<br />
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Sometimes we say to our love partners that he/she is our life partner. But do you realize that it is so soon to say that? Have u ever imagined that someday for any reasons that he/she can leave us?<br />
Can you say that he/she is your life partner? I don't think so.<br />
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A truly life partner is someone who will always be with us, accompany and support us when our life become very bad. And he/she is will smile with us when we are happy. Never cheat and feel get bored with us until we are in old age.<br />
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So, according to my perspective, we can say that someone is a life partner <br />
is when we are in our last breath in this world and when that time come, our partner is still with us. <br />
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That's the truly life partner.Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-11195192019945158432011-10-20T22:06:00.001-07:002011-10-20T22:30:09.501-07:00How to Love Our PartnersSometimes we are confused to show our loves to our partners. If we just say I love you, I miss you, I think it is not enough and if we say it too much, I am afraid those words will be so meaningless again, because our partners used to hear it.<br />
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In my poin of view, we should do more action than words to show how much we love our partners. Yeah, talk less do more is the best way. I will try to describe how to show our loves with our partners in some examples.<br />
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1. Help your partners<br />
Helping our partners here means we are not only support them by encouraging them when they feel down, but also we help them in doing their daily activities, no matter your position as a husband or a boyfriend. You can help to finish their house works when you see your partner tired, or busy in work.<br />
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2. Try not to be angry with their mistakes<br />
If your partner make mistake, I mean not big mistake like cheating, you should not angry with them. Just ask why your partner did that and accept the reason. <br />
If you always angry with your partner, I am afraid your partner will try to hide anything with you someday to avoid your anger.<br />
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3. Say thank you to your partner<br />
Don't forget to say thank you with your partner even just for small thing. You can say it with smile and say it Sincerely.<br />
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4. Hold your partners hand in the crowd<br />
When you and your partner go in public places, don't be hesitate to hold your partner's hand. It will make your partner feel that you are proud and want to show to the world that he/she is our beloved.<br />
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But most of all, never hurt your partner's feelings. Never dissapointed your partner with cheating. We are just human, and sometimes boredom come to us and we can make big mistake by cheating just for fun. Just remember one thing, is it worth to lose your partner's love and hurt someone who loves you just for a short fun? I think it is not worth at all.Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-25842233453538541682011-09-26T12:43:00.000-07:002011-09-26T12:43:08.432-07:00Tips to Get Your Ex BackFeelings of love to your ex are still present and difficult to remove? Maybe you still expect him back. <br />
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Pride and shame are a natural feeling when I want to ask the former lover for dating again. The following six tips can help you get your ex back, cited by Self Growth:<br />
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1. Talk about a good<br />
Maybe your ex is still confused and misunderstand what happens first. Honest and talk about good reasons why you left it first. Make good communication back and do not let his views are wrong about you persist in his mind.<br />
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2. second chance<br />
"Neighbor's grass is greener", the term can be broken for some reason. If this happens to you, lover abandoned because there are other people more interesting, try to forgive his mistakes and give a chance on the former to return. Normally he would regret it and feel that you are very mean.<br />
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3. Make the former 'jealous'<br />
Have fun with friends and enjoy your solitude because it would make the former 'jealous' with your condition is fine. Make him regret is leaving you. Although too much, try to make ex jealous. The trick friends with other men.<br />
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4. Give a little spice<br />
Some couples split up because they feel bored, if it happens then give a little spice to the relationship that is not monotonous. For those of you who are rarely met, try to spend weekends with out of town together. Talk about what you want to do to one another, perhaps it could be a solution for a boring relationship.<br />
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5. Forget the past<br />
Problems that triggered the end of a relationship, it could make ex afraid to get back to you. If this happens, make your seriousness on the ex and try to act like no bad thing happened in the past. Maybe this is the only way to fix the error for both of you.<br />
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6. apologizing<br />
Honesty is very important in relating. Be honest to apologize to the ex, the words "forgive me" and "I'm sorry" can represent your heart's content and make the ex receiving your return.<br />
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Hope it will help.Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-68463875802919000422011-09-18T12:28:00.000-07:002011-09-18T12:29:16.686-07:00Tips to handle your cheating spouseNothing is more painful than if your spouse having an affair. So much information available about what you should do if the husband had an affair, but very little is written about things that you should not do.<br />
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If you are not 100 percent sure that your husband cheated on her, before taking important decisions, you should first focus attention on what you should NOT do. This is difficult because usually the woman would be foolhardy to know their husband having an affair. When feeling angry, hurt, and wants revenge raging, common sense often forgotten. Here are 5 things NOT to do, complete with the reason.<br />
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1. Do not drive or leave it<br />
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As a first step, avoid expel husband, let alone leave it. Both of these are the last thing you should do if necessary. Right now all you need do is pay attention and watch what happens, while collecting facts. It is easier to do if you are still living in one house. If you throw or you are leaving home, it would be difficult to track what it does.<br />
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2. Do not tell to everyone<br />
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Naturally, if you want to tell her husband's infidelity to someone or seek support, either from friends or family. But be careful with what you describe. When you tell a female friend, usually he will tell you again on another friend. Make sure the person you made the vent is a person who can really be trusted and would uphold the secret. Better not tell your male friend as this will make the situation more difficult because they often will take a chance.<br />
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3. Do not pretend nothing happened<br />
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If you are being ignore, this will only make the situation worse.Whatever feels so pain to know a husband having an affair, you still have to face reality. Ignoring his infidelity gives him the opportunity to continue to enjoy the affair. Pretending there is no adultery committed by a husband will make her think you do not mind and accept infidelity does. At certain times you have to explicitly say to my husband, you know the affair and told him firmly to stop the affair.<br />
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4. Do not confront him without any evidences<br />
Many experts argue, should confront your husband about the affair. But for its implementation, you must have a mature plan. Choose a time and a safe place so that the conversation did not get interference. DO NOT ask your husband if he cheated. He definitely will not be admitted. Show the evidence you've collected in the form of the name, date, place, telephone, and others. Then ask him some questions, like why he did it, how it happened very beginning, how long this affair had happened, how she felt about the affair, and what he will do after you find out what he did.<br />
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5. Do not be obsessed with the affair<br />
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Naturally, if you want to know about the woman's identity, but do not let your time and energy wasted just because the woman. Do not obsess on your curiosity about what they do in detail. Concentrate the mind on how to solve this problem for you both. Do not embarrass or frustrate yourself by calling and even berated her affair and demanded the woman's husband leaves you. He is not obligated to follow your commands.<br />
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Disrupt or even threaten to harm you. If one step can actually drag you into court. Insult, criticize, or belittle it will make your husband's defense. You will make them even closer. Forget women's affair and concentrate your energy and efforts to restore your marriage as before.<br />
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good luck.Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-48579717644607472532011-09-18T11:57:00.000-07:002011-09-18T11:57:20.223-07:00Establishing long-distance love or long distance love usually does pose many dilemmas for those who live it. And with a variety of technological sophistication on offer, should the distance is no longer a major issue. So how do I establish a long-distance love lasting and safe? ..<br />
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Many who can not afford long distance affair. Various reasons of course be a very reinforce the statement. But actually, juicy and just do there own pleasure. While certainly this is not as easy to imagine, and need a lot of sacrifices.<br />
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Dating long distance can also test the fidelity and harmony of the couple and can anticipate and strengthen the relationships that have been in interlace, Some trick is taken from some expert advice of Psychology and no doubt because of advice and tips and tricks previously been investigated from several samples of couples undergoing relationship in long-distance love are:<br />
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1. Explain the expectations from the beginning<br />
Do not beat around the bush, plan for the future early on. According to Drs. Greg Guldner, director of the Center for the Study of Long-Distance Relationships, which distinguishes between the pair of successful and unsuccessful underwent LDR is: the basic rules. Dr. Guldner explains, approximately 70% of LDR couples who did not set up since the first agreement, the average break up after 6 months. Surely the most important thing to do is talk about ground rules, such as: whether the relationship is exclusive, or open? Any number of times a day to give the news, via email, via text or sms? When the schedule met?<br />
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2. Express Yourself<br />
Couples who live nearby have often had difficulties to meet and express their love. So, imagine how difficult it LDR couples let alone face to face contact. Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages for Singles said, "It is important to know how to make your spouse feel appreciated and loved. Moreover, through the words. For example, 'If you are on my side today, I'll give you a kiss on the forehead'. "He also suggested to share the story of facing the day-to-day to the couple. This should be done to maintain proximity, so that when you and your partner met there are things that can be told and avoid circumstances that make you feel like a stranger. Not only by e-mail, conventional mail was the same thrill to make you feel more personal relationship with reading scratches his hand. Tuck pieces of newspaper or a funny poem written your essay on the leaves. You can be more creative through conventional mail.<br />
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3.Make or give a surprise<br />
Often a refreshing surprise of a relationship. For a long distance can take advantage of shipping services. Occasionally sending flowers can be a romantic longing bidder. If there is enough time for a holiday surprise her by coming to his city. But remember, too busy, not too much demanding his time. If possible, find out first schedule him on that day. Your visit is also no need for long, the important sense of longing has been remedied.<br />
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4. Enjoy your freedom<br />
Life is too close to the couple can be a difficult thing for each can grow personally and professionally. Living apart is difficult, but it gives us a personal space to grow but remain in a relationship. As time went on, you will learn the attitude and nature of each partner, until in the end if you decide to live together, it no longer becomes a "sacrifice" but a compromise.<br />
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5.Trust and Forbearance<br />
When it is committed to long-distance relationship, trust is very important to the couple. If you can not trust the partner you should think twice before embarking on long-distance relationship. You can own tortured tired of suspicion and jealousy because he can not always keep an eye on her lover. If there is a feeling of suspicion or anxiety, directly revealed to him. Do not keep to themselves and develop into a problem.<br />
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Emotional state is difficult to control. Sometimes a little upset could be a problem. Especially for long-distance couples, patience is an important aspect. As emotional distance relationship couple at more explosive. Though the couple should really appreciate the times when they are on the phone or meet.<br />
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Therefore, if a problem arises you should try to be patient and do not immediately explode. Remember, meetings and communication is quite difficult should be filled with fun things to more intimate relationships. Always end the conversation with the sweet words.<br />
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6. Create a more enjoyable<br />
You can make things more fun by making a few surprises for him. Able to give gifts that are sent at any time. It is important to make it feel that you are thinking of him. But keep in mind: give the distance of time. Do not let him feel you are bombarded. Give gifts that are made personally, like the book he had long wanted to read, the video contains a message, chocolate that you created yourself, your photos together, lock pendant, made your own poetry, engraved jewelry, flowers containing the message, and others. The more personal gift that you make, the greater the impact will be received by the him.<br />
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Who would not like a sweet surprise? Surprises can be fun because of unexpected and represents how much the giver is watching people's surprise. Try: create advertisements in national newspapers or local newspapers that it places him how much you love her. Or make a sudden trip into place. Or create a video message that states your feelings with your own way. Or send a gift to his house while he was visiting you, until once he arrived at his house, the gift was waiting for him. LDR can be successful if you and your partner are willing to set the time and effort to make it run better.<br />
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But the core of all of the above recipe is trust, compassion and PATIENCE. Hope it will help.Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-10125908458704767892011-09-18T11:37:00.000-07:002011-09-18T11:37:43.887-07:00How to overcome from being jealousJealousy is the spice in a relationship. The nature of jealousy can be an effective way for a person to express his love. Jealousy can also be a sign that you are still meaningful for the couple. <b>Jealousy</b> can be used as a flavoring as well as trigger the spirit of romance couples (couples).<br />
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But behind the positive values, these properties can not be left just to make a person blind jealous. Because when someone is hit by excessive feelings of jealousy that fuel the dispute, even to the ends with farewell.<br />
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To fix this, then we must do the following:<br />
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<b>Positive thoughts</b><br />
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One of the best ways to overcome jealousy is to think positively about your partner. Because negative thoughts can trigger the occurrence of conflicts, ranging from trivial problem down to a more serious stage.<br />
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<b>Communicate what is happening</b><br />
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Often the men or women think their partners do strange things when not on their side. Though such thoughts may be unwarranted and only a mere conjecture.<br />
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Although the couple had to explain what actually happened, but while you still can not believe it, then it can make your partner do the charge against him. Therefore, you should listen to the explanation of new couples decide if they like that had been suspected or not.<br />
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<b>Express true feelings</b><br />
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A healthy relationship needs to be grounded in fact no jealousy, because feelings are often not useful.<br />
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To avoid conflicts, you are good enough to express what is felt. Such as when you feel uncomfortable when he was close to the opposite sex. That way he will know what's been bothering you.<br />
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<b>Jealous of infection only in relation</b><br />
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Supposing that transmit infectious disease, excessive jealousy can cause infection in a relationship.<br />
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Infection can occur when you are always suspicious of the pair by contacting him at all times, checking his cell phone, always unload his bag, and finding fault with your partner.<br />
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Whereas these conditions should not happen because all things can be discussed carefully without causing new problems. Without being forced, it will show your spouse cell phone.<br />
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There may be special reasons that make him not showing his cell during this time, such as there are secrets of the company or individual who does not want to know the people.<br />
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Good luck ...Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-64261086439048705692011-09-07T14:45:00.001-07:002011-09-07T14:45:59.817-07:00Tips to find true loveFinding true love is not as easy as turning the palm of the hand, keep in mind and the conditions are ideal for determining that someone is your true love. But there are tips that can help find true love. This is it!<br />
1. Do not look for it. Love does not come at someone who is looking for it. If indeed you just ended a relationship, focus on self and personal life first. No need to rush to find new love, and enjoy your solitude.<br />
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2. Give time to yourself. Find your positive aura. If you feel satisfied with themselves appear, then automatically it will shine a positive aura. And the people around would see. That's the charm for yourself.<br />
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3. If you're ready to turn a new page for the relationship, then start choosing the character as what is desirable partner. Not only physically but also mentally and personality.<br />
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4. Socialize and hang out. It will open up opportunities for you to meet new people. Who knows one of them is your true love.<br />
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5. Dare to take risks. If one day you meet someone who fits the criteria of true love, do not hesitate to take action. Begin introductions and building relationships. Because opportunities do not come twice.<br />
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6. Most importantly, love yourself first. Live happily and never give up hope. Rest assured, every person is created in pairs. The problem is getting the right people, at the right time.Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-42951443733173676802011-09-07T14:29:00.000-07:002011-09-07T14:29:43.750-07:00Tips to Overcome JealousyThe nature of this jealousy is a human instinct that is very difficult for the dammed. Many people assume greater that a woman has a sense of jealousy. Jealousy actually is be felt by both men and women, jealous is nature exist in human beings.<br />
There are many reasons why we feel jealous to our partners, but we may not realize that we're in jealous. For that see the following signs, are you including the one who are jealous ..?<br />
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Signs of Jealousy<br />
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Call several times a day, and angry if it is not answered.<br />
Continue to speak to even though he was busy and know that timing is not right.<br />
In vain that the accused left the house for no apparent reason and certainty.<br />
Finding Opportunities and spy on each activity and motion.<br />
Always ask our partner to inform his/her activities.<br />
Always question the departure with whom and where (as detective)<br />
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TIP Dealing with a partner who is hit by jealous<br />
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If your partner begins to show jealousy, do not be swept away, better still than make a fuss.<br />
Accept gracefully may be the he was a different matter and does not intend to hurt you.<br />
Make sure that all the accused is not true with caution and with a sense of love,<br />
DO NOT go for no apparent reason, ask for permission and approval in advance. Or worse and more complicated problems.<br />
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Overcoming Jealousy<br />
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Respect your partner's feelings. Because he/she also has the right to assess a woman's beauty / another man.<br />
Know yourself, that in order to eliminate jealousy requires a long time.<br />
Keep always to think positive about your partner, believes in mutual trust.<br />
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Good luck.Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-42460305491430016282011-09-02T11:04:00.000-07:002011-09-02T11:04:08.152-07:00Tips For Building Trust In A RelationshipTrust is something that is badly needed in every aspect of life whether in love affairs, employment, trade, and other things that require us to interact with others. In a relationship, there is no trust each other, 99.9% would destroy the relationship sooner or later. You can not say "I love you" when you can not say "I trust you" for love and trust is something that can not be separated. Here are eight ways to develop trust in a relationship:<br />
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1. Says the real<br />
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Be wisely now have to say honestly. Does not mean you have to tell all the secrets of what you have but you should be open about everything about our relationship and him/her. No matter it is a good thing or bad, big or small problem, much better when you can tell and share with the date your. This is important because trust is a difficult one created back when you have lost it. Any small problem, when you are not honest, could be a big problem. Once you lie (and out), date your will be easier when you do something suspicious. Did you know that fire can be started from the flame cigarette?<br />
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2. consistent<br />
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People are difficult to predict will be difficult to trust others. If the attitude so often changed without a clear date your will feel you hiding something from him/her. Yesterday you did not challenge it on the go with friends, but today you angry with him/herself. Sometimes you honest with s problem, sometimes not. Remember, inconsistencies in attitude will weaken his/her faith.<br />
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3. promise<br />
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You may owe for you 100% sure you can pay it. You can negotiate for you 100% sure you can meet the promises unless there things that you can not stop. If you are not sure, you do not have to promise high-flown. Much better when you give him/her without surprise on the date your say on the plans are. If it appears can not be done, it will not date your frustration because you never promised earlier.<br />
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4. Be smart<br />
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Simple only, the smart and has a broad vision easier to convince others. It could well explain many cases of spouse. Please answer this, what people will believe in yourself if you make something you do not master?<br />
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5. communication<br />
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Yes, communication will build trust on the date your long as you are always open and honest. The more intense you communicate it will trust you and open about himself. You certainly can not believe 100% in the way you have never talked with him/her, right?<br />
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6. unreliable<br />
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Be a reliable and sought first time when he/she needs help from others. Help him/her with sincere and honest when you do not understand the problem, do not push yourself and then accompanied him/her to seek help from others. The more often you can be relied upon by it, the more it will trust that you are the right person for him.<br />
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7. recant<br />
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Everyone knows that human beings never be separated from the errors but unfortunately not everyone is willing to admit guilt either because of fear or pride. If you've been untrue to him/herself, you should be able to apologize and admit your mistake. Hopefully, he can understand and still trust you. It's better than you continue to save the error and put your pride. Of course you must be consistent with not repeating the same mistakes.<br />
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8. Believe in yourself and him/her<br />
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Believe in yourself that you have chosen the right person to be your mate. When you have trust in your decision, you will have a strong foundation to building trust. And when you believe in him/her, he will believe you, too.<br />
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Good luck for you all.Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-77291199942111703812011-09-02T10:53:00.000-07:002011-09-02T10:53:07.713-07:00The danger of Dating in the InternetA very rapid development of Internet greatly facilitates a lot of people in the move. Ordering latest novel, read the news, find jobs, make friends and even dating. Then if the internet is safe?<br />
Not really. Just like the real world, the Internet is very vulnerable by a variety of crime. What is the most cases of fraud and burglary site. What about online dating? Dating online is creating a new way to get acquainted with people without having to come face to face, either through online dating websites, instant messenger (Yahoo Messenger, Windows Live Messenger), online games or social networking websites (Twitter, Facebook). However, beyond that, there is a latent danger that threatens its users.<br />
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Here are the dangers of dating in the internet :<br />
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1. You do not know who the other person actually<br />
The first The danger of course relates to the identity of the other person. Other person could have put a variety of fictitious information such as gender, age, photograph, or work. You'll never know who he is before you ever actually meet face to face with him. It would be very painful is not it, if it turns out you're wasting your time to share feelings with people who are fictitious. Identifying a fictitious person is actually easy, you stay he met privately asked directly. A fictitious person will usually be difficult to find a variety of reasons. Of course, if he wants to meet face to face, does not mean you escape from the dangers of Internet dating. Read the next point.<br />
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2. A high risk of fraud<br />
A man named Dale Bell in West Allis, United States, must be willing to lose thousands of dollars due to fraud on the Internet. Dale Bell was originally introduced by exchanging emails to a woman who called Oladele, a New Yorker who currently lives in Nigeria. Oladele then send photos and emails to Dale romantic. Attracted to Oladele, the same woman he had never met, Dale without hesitation to send money with a total of more than 3000 dollars when Oladele promised to come to Milwaukee to meet with him. Of course these people never come. After an investigation, it turns out Oladele wearing a photograph of a model named Nicole Hawaii to win over Dale. If there is a saying that says, an image equivalent to a thousand words, then for Dale and other fraud victims, an image equivalent to thousands of dollars.<br />
The above story and many other stories that you can read in the newspaper is living proof that the online world is the world's 'evil' if you can not use it properly.<br />
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3. privacy issues<br />
The next problem is the issue of privacy. E-mail address, home address, background, and the data you will be used to things that are not responsible if you're too easy to include them in a foreign website. E-mail spamming and fraud are the things to watch when you give yourself the data on a website.<br />
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4. physical violence<br />
As I said at the first point, if you've met in person, does not mean you escape from the dangers of online dating. You could have met with people who intend evil, either because they want to rob, kill, rape, or even meet with psychopaths. Beware especially if you are a woman, never met alone with someone who you only know via the Internet.<br />
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5. Counterfeiting relationship status<br />
In September 2010, the British man, John Lorne McDonald should lose his life after being killed by Anselmo Locastales, a Filipino man. Anselmo is a genuine lover Nanqueen Romero, a woman whom he knew through a chat room. Apparently jealous of John Anselmo and stabbed him to death. Counterfeiting of such status is often the case in cyberspace and make yourself have a lot of problems when you are caught, say, with people who are married or have boyfriends.<br />
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Internet made it easier to live, we all agree that. However, the ease it provides a gap for people who are not responsible for performing various kinds of crime. Always beware of what you see and read on the internet because after all, the online world is a man-made world.<br />
That is the danger of dating on the internet. Beware!Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-36405963109043715522011-09-02T07:05:00.000-07:002011-09-02T07:05:43.201-07:00Privacy Policy<html> <head><br />
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Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-43354415206291629322011-08-11T05:59:00.001-07:002011-08-12T13:11:54.768-07:00I love you is not enough<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><br />
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Expressing love is not necessarily just by saying the words 'I love you, honey'. If too often we hear those words, without accompanied by action, then we will feel a little falsehood in it. To avoid our spouses think like that, then there are some things we must do to prove how much we love our spouse. <br />
1. Listen when our partners chat with us. <br />
Do not forget to give comments to the topics they are talking about. Laugh when they make jokes. All that will make them feel appreciated by us. <br />
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2. Sometimes hold their hands when we talk to them. Physical contact like it would make them feel that we really love our partners. <br />
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3. Talk with our partners every times we have opportunity. Knowing what happens in their daily or discuss the similarities you both must be fun. Lovers also should not be fixated with a boring conversation. <br />
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4. Smile when there is eye contact with your partner. It will make your partner feel your love. <br />
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5. Admire them every chance. Do it wholeheartedly. <br />
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6. When there in public, stand beside them, hold their hand. Do not hesitate to show the world that you really love your mate. Things like that make your partner feel loved and appreciated by you. <br />
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All of the above are something simple but actually very meaningful to our spouse. Do it all with sincerity that our partners feel a sense of our love and how much we love our partners.</div>Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-74184981435861541762011-07-19T03:27:00.001-07:002011-08-06T07:29:49.575-07:00Reading Your Zodiac<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">Capricorn (December 22 to January 20) Capricorn is the zodiac symbol of hard-working, ambitious and they are very diligent in trying to get what they want. Looks like they enjoy their work during the work fun, especially if his income satisfactory. Like a Sea Goat (Goat), which became a symbol of those who take shelter in this zodiac, Capricorn will continue to strive to achieve the peak of success. They will fall in love with a spouse caring, trustworthy, and reliable forever. Capricorn is also an expert in organizing and presenting an intimate ambience for couples special. Social environment is also important to Capricorn, they will be more interested in the figure that has appeal and charm to a high standard. Anyone who gets him will have a big impact for life. Since power is a very powerful aphrodisiac to conquer a Capricorn, and conversely, their lover will get loyalty and happiness of their partner.<br />
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Aquarius (January 21 to February 19) Aquarius has the maturity and ability to think ahead of others. The Water Bearer (pouring water) is an visionaries, loving and giving, which saw the beauty of friendship and attachment can be achieved from various angles are ideal. Their independent nature is the source of ideas. They always fascinate her colleagues with a clean mind and the spirit of humanity. Persistence is the best side of them in the face of whatever obstacles they face and they are easily lured by the love which they can share the joys and sorrows for the sake of a better future. A spouse who has the intuition and want to believe that a wish could come true, will be directly heartbreaking Aquarius. Water Bearer (pouring water) is a seducer who lives with many things, but also appreciate the excitement that was created along with their loved ones.<br />
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Pisces (February 20-March 20) Pisces is ruled under the conditions of the subconscious. Fantasy and imagination of Pisces is the real world. Pondering and dreaming is a very interesting activity for the citizens of Pisces. They often move from the conscious to the subconscious world. Sometimes without them knowing it. Hopes and dreams so they need to develop a romantic side in Pisces. Sometimes they are being closed tightly and store the secret itself nominally in the liver, even though from their partners. When he returned to consciousness, a Pisces no longer self-centered and ready to satisfy their partner. Devotee of the beautiful things is always trying to spoil him. In the end, he enjoyed all the intimacy that is created between the two of them, Pisces tend to be emotional. However, this side will be a source of great strength, impressed even erotic. If the partner knows how to treat them well, to release the emotional burden. Sensitive and intuitive are their characteristics.<br />
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Aries (March 21-April 20) The symbol of the zodiac is the Bull based on the element of fire. Only one of the most appropriate word to describe Aries, namely thermal (heat). Those born under the auspices of these have the passion and tremendous energy, they seemed unassailable. Never get bored! Aries pleased to initiate a relationship, and approachable. Ladies' man could be a fitting title for him. Partners who have a passion and high durability is the desire of Aries. Her love would only be given to those who could accompany him through life, because they crave the couple who can share in the joys and sorrows. Because it is so familiar with him, often seemed selfish because Aries likes to organize and to undergo something as he wishes. This may lead to conflict with her partner. But Aries always try to resolve obstacles that exist with their partner and find the best solution for both of them. This dispute is not always bad. It may even be a start toward a smoldering romance. Their struggle, resilience, is just the beginning of the game that will bring satisfaction to them. Aries is usually the figure of an attractive, adventurous, seductive, passionate and fun.<br />
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Taurus (April 21 - May 20) symbol Bull (Bull), constituted by elements of the Land, grounded, loyal and not boring. But certainly the Bull (Bull) like lead! Taurus generally wants a harmonious and beautiful relationship, likes to give whatever they can give. Is it the songs are beautiful or silk blanket, Taurus loves anything that smells of luxury and anyone who can bring these aspects in their lives. Without intent-style, because they are people who are sentimental, romantic and appealing to certain people who believe that they will get what they want. Always make the Bull (Bull) feel comfortable, will give assurance for them to maintain the integrity of the relationship.<br />
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Gemini (May 21 - June 21) Describing the Twins are very potential to be a spender, because Mercury is mastered. Can not be silent, always searching, and eager to learn. Gemini is a dynamic type, based on the element of Air. The twins have a high intellect and not easily give up in the mind playing with her partner, thought it was just a mere game of small children. They are also famous for eloquence in talking about various things, so be prepared to listen to all things, from the most pleasing to the most miserable. Inventor, resourceful and fun. The twins will change partners from one partner to another until they find someone who is almost as smart as them and are able to compensate. Rewards for those who could ensnare the Gemini is the freedom of love that can change daunting. Most Gemini is also adept at using both hands equally well.<br />
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Cancer (June 22-July 22) The house is like the heart of a Cancer, and a protective umbrella for the family, makes the house feel peaceful and upholds the values of family tradition. With symbols and ruled by the Moon Crab, Cancer has emotions that change often follow the mood. Find her in a good mood, it will show the figure of loving and devout souls who could easily bring a warm atmosphere. Strong desire, usually hard-hearted, but do not worry, because of the nature that one can still be conquered. Basic elements of this zodiac is Water. Cancer moods to flow like water in a river. On the other hand, the Crab appreciate the courage of a couple who want to seduce and held him to alter moods, feelings and emotions.<br />
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Leo (July 23 to August 23) Creative and romantic master the zodiac is called House of Pleasure (Pleasure) is, playing with the creatures on this one, it would be fun. Lions love to play and very good at socializing. A Leo is able to discuss his fantasies in public, even those who shelter under this zodiac believe that they are a star. Like a pair of kings and queens in the Zodiac, Leo is a leader. They are powerful, and a sense of power that makes them managed to conquer the others. Love life was going well, and for anyone who managed to ensnare a creature will be in anugerahi great love. Like the sun, which illuminates the entire face of the earth, the Leo pleased with the world surrounding them.<br />
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Virgo (August 24 to September 23) As a Sign of Service (Service), one of the favorite Virgo is helping friends and people they love. Diligent, efficient and highly organized, Virgo rarely get a problem that can not be resolved, and hands them means friendly treatment. The planet Mercury symbolizes the master Virgo communication, which makes Virgo motivated to do things clearly, solve problems and bring the atmosphere of romance that a better direction. Virgo can also be a figure who shy, conservative and rather closed, only persons who could guarantee that they can get out of the atmosphere that can make her happy. Their concern for health, making them well suited to become a doctor or nurse.<br />
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Libra (September 24 to October 23) Libra, the symbol of balance, holds the balance and harmony above all else. It would be better if this can be achieved with their spouse. House of Partnerships (Paired-Partner) is the nickname for them and they will love the new stuff. Balance of social skills and bring a fun atmosphere, good at communicating a gift they have and always attract attention. The Libra has always wanted to be liked, even loved by people who do not meyukai them, and will be very difficult to refuse when they present with the charm and magnetism. It was not something unusual for a Libra to force myself to look graceful and not excited. Behind the pretty face / handsome radiates the impression of intelligent, passionate souls who know exactly what they want, and desire to do things fairly and clearly. If they find a partner that they are looking for this, they will be treated as a true partner who comes from heaven.<br />
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Scorpio (October 24 to November 22) Dubbed the House of Sex can be fun and a curse for them, although everything depends on how the Scorpio responded to the erotic side. Those who are born as creatures of the mysterious and mystical abilities tend to have very nimble energy capture, power, and strength in exploring the emotion and desire their partner. A intusisi and Scorpio have a great curiosity for all things. So, there is nothing to hide from her, this sexy (though still there are some things that they hide for themselves). A Scorpio is also confident and resourceful, they they are accustomed to choosing what is best for them and how to get it. Anyone who wants to get it, will be bound by the cosmic forces of sexual desire. The good news? Been waiting for a lover loyal and loving. On the other hand, never disdaining him, because they will leave a painful sting.<br />
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Sagittarius (November 23-December 21) the symbol of the archer is dubbed the House of Philosophy (philosophy-philosophy), something to do with curiosity, looking for identity. The Sagittarius is the seeker of truth, very focused in studying their love and explore it more deeply. The Archers want to reveal everything in depth, which makes walking an endless conversation, from religion to politics, and find the best position that made him feel most comfortable. They are versatile and always fascinating, they also love to spend time to contemplate the life they have lived, this makes them a man who easily moved by the suffering of human and animal safety and care of forests that are threatened with extinction. One Archers love a challenge, because it could make them more excited.<br />
This posting is just for acknwoledge<br />
Hope it is useful.</div>Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-16573627872357648082011-07-06T13:06:00.001-07:002011-07-11T07:53:18.199-07:00how to make your partner loves you againTips to make your partner fall in<br />
love with you again A love relationship for years does not constitute a<br />
guarantee is always preserved and happy. Feeling<br />
boring will come with you. So what if she/he begins<br />
showing signs that it is boring? she starts to move<br />
away. Busy with their own activities. No longer call or<br />
notice you, as always. You further action? No need to be confused and upset. There are four ways to make<br />
her fell in love again to you. Just read this tips:<br />
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Tips 1: Tell her/him frankly about your feelings. You<br />
should be honest to her/him. Try to tell her you need<br />
her/him. Then tell me what is in your mind. That way<br />
you will each know their feelings. But with a notice<br />
that you should be honest and want to understand<br />
each other. If just one side who want to be understood then the relationship will not run properly.<br />
Do not be afraid you confide in him. If you do not feel<br />
comfortable with his attitude to you, we recommend<br />
that you express it.<br />
Thus he will introspect yourself. What makes him the<br />
saturation will be known. And you both can find a way out. Tips 2: (this second tips is for women) Show him<br />
Woman's Power ,your confident and power, show him<br />
that you are the dream of all men. Nowadays a man<br />
hunt for the kind of woman like that. Not whiny<br />
women who can only let go and cry. If he's starting to<br />
show his boring, you try to remember what made him fall in love with you. For example your cooking. You<br />
could make him the favorite dishes. Make a romantic<br />
dinner to make her mood back again. Tip 3: Get to know his personallity ,you have to<br />
explore her/his personality, what she/he likes, her/<br />
his hobbies. Thus you will better understand her/his<br />
world . Show that you can accept and support all<br />
activities and what she/he likes. She/He will feel<br />
more appreciated. Our partner really want to be appreciated. By understanding and appreciating her/<br />
him, then you make it comfortable. And saturation of<br />
the he will be reduced. Tips 4: Give freedom for her/him, sometimes people<br />
often want to be free and alone. But it does not mean<br />
she/he wants to escape from you. She/He just wants<br />
to do what she/he wants. Without any hindrance, and<br />
free. The she/he often takes time for herself/himself,<br />
without you. Do not hesitate to give him a little room for freedom. By giving them the opportunity to own,<br />
she/he will increasingly miss you. Do not try to disturb<br />
her/his solitude. Just wait until then she/ he feels that<br />
she/he misses you. Hope it will be useful for us. Post a CommentHome designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-11363885423294795982011-06-01T10:46:00.001-07:002011-06-03T08:00:04.635-07:00How to Live After Marriage<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtLEwGNDcXp4HByTjQ-EjyE8yq4-dINdwZ_Snyomy4tfqOuCUetNCiYP6NSBOlZrI4SXYwDX-5G_lWsAABiibTBfizspD1vB16h4E5PD6f_BmsYRWbWpTE_p5WUfjYuWrAHZQrNnjmaPs/s1600/couple-fighting-on-couche.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="212" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtLEwGNDcXp4HByTjQ-EjyE8yq4-dINdwZ_Snyomy4tfqOuCUetNCiYP6NSBOlZrI4SXYwDX-5G_lWsAABiibTBfizspD1vB16h4E5PD6f_BmsYRWbWpTE_p5WUfjYuWrAHZQrNnjmaPs/s320/couple-fighting-on-couche.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>There are seven things which are always underestimated by husband and wife. These seven things will make husband and wife relationship become so far away and for the worst , it can cause cheating.<br />
Here are the seventh things:<br />
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1. Both of husband and wife still keep their own secret. <br />
keep a secret from your partner is a <br />
mistake. Should all things must be known <br />
by both parties. Honesty will make your <br />
partner feel more valued and trusted by <br />
you.<br />
2. loss of a sense of romance.<br />
everyone has <br />
known how important romance in marriage.<br />
If the atmosphere is missing in your <br />
marriage, then your marriage will taste <br />
bland. Wake up the romantic atmosphere<br />
with your partners in any ways. Remember the first time you both met,your date,etc. It will make you to make up the romatic situation.<br />
3. training trust.<br />
Mutual trust is very <br />
important for husbands and wives. But <br />
usually, in an enduring marriage, the nature <br />
of trust was changed to 'indifferent'. Do not <br />
easily believe in gossip about your partner,<br />
but you also need to be alert.<br />
4. stay away from boredom. <br />
a marriage <br />
after runs for five years, sometimes will create the atmosphere <br />
of monotonous. If this is<br />
allowed, there will be boredom, although <br />
both sides did not disclose honestly. To<br />
avoid boredom, first thing that we have to do is, stop to pretend attitude of 'I am not bored with this relationship'. Both side must be <br />
honest with each other to talk about why it <br />
happened vapidity in the relationship. Try to <br />
take a day off just with your husband. Do a <br />
new activity. Whether at home or outside<br />
the home.<br />
5. Talk and Talk<br />
Try to speak anything to your husband/wife. Just simple chating, and sometimes make a joke too. It will make both of you laugh and it will increase your internal connection.<br />
6. Create same hobby with your partner.<br />
your husband likes fishing? Why don't you go with him sometimes. Go fishing together and spend your time together. You can create the same hobby as your both activity to do together. <br />
7. Make 'one free-children day'<br />
Children are everything,but don't forget to spend your time for your partner too. Make a romantic day just for your husband/wife.<br />
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Good luck.</div>Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-37741189457156413722011-05-27T12:12:00.000-07:002011-06-03T07:26:05.413-07:00your husband, your money, and your own<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><br />
couples who were well off financially to<br />
enable them to buy whatever they want,<br />
provided they know how to manage their <br />
finances after marriage. Unfortunately not <br />
all couples can manage it well. Some couples <br />
do not even have enough money. Often they have enough money but they do not use it<br />
wisely, so that the debt will accumulate, and<br />
cause fights. If couples do not have to be <br />
mutually agreed plan of spending money,<br />
then the marriage may have trouble. The<br />
plan should be based on three basic, as follows:<br />
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1. Make a financial plan. All your money <br />
resources should be owned together. If a <br />
marriage is considered ideal, there is no<br />
term 'mine and yours'. Every financial <br />
problem that is covered is an act that shows <br />
'untrust', and that means rejecting the notion that marriage is the<br />
bonding together. Couples should assume <br />
that everything they have is their financial <br />
resources together, ready to be used for <br />
joint efforts in building homes and provide <br />
education to the family.<br />
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2. Spending all the money should be agreed<br />
upon. There are couples that make up a very<br />
tight budget. There are a couple of other <br />
basic calculations. Sometimes the husband is<br />
making the details, but sometimes the wife <br />
is more skilled. No matter who makes it and how, the important thing is that there is <br />
an agreed plan. Emergency situation may <br />
arise that the plan should be changed. It is<br />
recommended to make funding <br />
recommendations to overcome the crisis.<br />
The proposal is made to set aside some money in the budget.<br />
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3. when preparing the budget, husband,<br />
wife, and children should be given weekly<br />
personal money, which can be used each<br />
without having to ask what will they use money for.<br />
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This money comes from outside the agreed budget and is a personal money. Money to <br />
buy a bus ticket or train to get to the office,<br />
for clothing, and all the routine things that <br />
need to be incorporated into the budget,<br />
while private money is the money property <br />
of their respective family members which used for entertainment, hobbies, or <br />
whatever. Wife who wants to invite her <br />
friends to a restaurant do not need to take <br />
money from the budget, or the husband <br />
does not need money from the budget to watch a football match. <br />
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By applying these three basic principles in any <br />
particular situation, you will feel that the<br />
serious financial problems can be avoided,<br />
and a happy marriage will not be disturbed.<br />
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Hope it's useful for us.</div>Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-71276016125838507642011-05-20T06:31:00.000-07:002011-05-20T06:31:29.057-07:00<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: white; font-family: Arial, Tahoma, Helvetica, FreeSans, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;"></span><br />
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Author: CD Mohatta<br />
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One who speaks a lie hurts. Only truth gives life and peace. A lie always hurts. Even the smallest lie hurts. It hurts one to whom the lie has been spoken, and surely hurts the person who speaks the lie.<br />
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Unfortunately, in today's world lies are taken as way of life. Those who speak lies, bury morality so deep down somewhere, that no one can find it. These people with black hearts speak lies and sometimes they lie to the extent that it kills one who believes them. Speaking a lie is betraying trust. To speak a falsehood to one who believes that truth is being spoken, is sinful. Society may not punish liars, but there is the law of karma, that punishes the liar.<br />
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What of the pain that a liar gives to one who trusted her/him? Let us look at that pain in depth. Lies come in many types. Let us first try to find out about what kinds of liars are there on this earth. The first type is a small liar. A poor person, who speaks lies to survive in this brutal world. On the other end, we have liars who rule the nations. For their own power, they invent all kinds of lies and mislead people to believe the untruth. The worst liars are those who lie to someone who has total trust in her/him. A child always takes the word of mother or father as the truth. The child has total trust in the words and takes them as the gospel truth. But as the child grows up, he/she realizes that his/her parent speak lies whenever they find it convenient. The child gets trained at this stage of life. Though the child learns about speaking truth in the text books, what he/she finds in the reality of role models, is different. And that reality is followed. This habit of speaking lies perpetuates in this fashion.<br />
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One more type of liar is the lover. Love depends on trust and nothing but total trust. Please look at some screensavers to find out the depth of romantic love. Love Screensaver- Life In Love , Love Screensaver -World Of Passion When a lover speaks lies, that not only breaks the trust, but it also kills the hearts. It kills the man/woman to whom the lie is spoken. These lovers are smooth liars. They think that by speaking lies they will save the love, but they manage to destroy not only the love, but also their beloved. They poison the life of their beloved with lies and are nothing short of murderers and killers. As I said before, society may not punish such liars, because society is not concerned with the depth of such relationships. But what of Karma, as the Indian philosophy calls it? That leaves no one. Only the law of karma gives the punishment to such a liar. What about the suffering party? Who will save the person who trusted the liar? Only the mercy of God can save such a battered person.<br />
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Mohatta writes content for screensavers on www.screene.com. He also writes text for eCards for Love , birthday wishes and other topics.<br />
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<a name='more'></a> He may tell you that everything is fine and that you're just imagining all of it, but your heart tells you differently. If you feel that things aren't heading in the direction you want within your relationship, don't ignore that. There are signs that your boyfriend doesn't want to be with you anymore that you need to be aware of. If you spot these in your relationship you know that you need to do some dramatic damage control before you lose him forever.<br />
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One of the signs he doesn't want to be with you anymore is he'll spend less time with you. That seems straightforward enough but many men are masters at coming up with believable excuses for why they can't see you. They may say that work has suddenly taken a turn towards busy or they have a sick friend who is relying heavily on them to help with day-to-day tasks. Men like this tend to have a list of excuses that seem completely believable however at the end of the day it all adds up to him spending less and less time with you. If he isn't putting seeing you above everything else in his life, that's a sign that you're not that important to him anymore.<br />
Another of the signs that your guy is pulling away from you is he'll be less attentive to you in person and on the phone. When a relationship is going well the man will be quick to pick up the phone when his girlfriend calls regardless of who he's with or what he's doing. When that shifts and he rarely answers or never returns voice mail messages, he's definitely losing interest. The same can be said for the time you two spend in person. If he's in a rush to leave or he's checking his phone every few minutes while he's visiting with you, his interest is elsewhere.<br />
If he's stopped telling you that he loves you, don't take that as a sign that he's feeling secure and comfortable within the relationship. The opposite is more than likely the case. When a man stops sharing his feelings it's because he's no longer feeling them as strongly. You can test this theory by telling him that you love him. If he changes the subject or says a simple "me too" that may be a sign that the love he did feel for you at one point just isn't there anymore.</div>Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-58518352173096163022011-05-14T10:28:00.001-07:002011-05-20T06:32:10.873-07:00what does he want from me?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">This is the question all women asked at least once in their lifetime.<br />
This article is simply to help women understand the average man better so that they can have better relations with them and stop stressing out about them.<br />
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• First of all, what type of girl does a man wants? Most guys want a laid-back girl that they can trust and know that truly loves them for who they are, not what they can do for them or how much money is in their pocket. They want to girl that they can happily bring home to their mother and proudly declare to his friends and family that this is his lady. They want a confident, assertive girl that has ambitions of her own not someone who is meek, insecure, or needy.<br />
• Do men only want one thing? Yes, it does not matter whether he is trying the friend, mentor (older men seeking younger women), the boyfriend, or any other approach. They are ultimately tying to get into your bed or find out what they have to do to get into your bed.<br />
• Why are men afraid of commitment? Men fear commitment because they are afraid of getting hurt. Surprisingly, men are more afraid of getting hurt than women. Think of about it. When a man cheats, it is only physical not romantic. In most cases, the woman usually takes the man back. Men, on the other hand, when their woman cheats on them, they are not taking her back because they no longer trust her. I know it sounds unfair, but this is how men think. They do not forgive as easy as women do. <br />
• Why doesn’t my man understand me? Men are not mind readers. Women are ruled by instinct, while men are ruled by logic. You have to tell men exactly what you want. Women also have to learn to take things with men at face value and not read into every single gesture men do. For example, if you are sick and man sends you flowers with a get well card. That is exactly what he meant, get well and do not die not that he is in love with you. Stop playing the mind games with men and just be real with them. <br />
• Never knock a man down when he is already down. For instance, we are in a recession. People are losing their jobs every day. Do not badmouth your man and treat him like a failure if he lost his job. Support him and comfort him. Encourage him and let him know that you are there for him if he needs you. But if he declines, do not be offended. It is just his way of being a man. Men define themselves by what they do, and how well they provide for their families. If he is not able to provide for his family, then he questions his manhood. The only thing he needs from you is your love and support to give him the motivation he needs not to give up and get back on his feet.<br />
• Leave the man alone when he is watching sports. Men love ESPN just like women love Lifetime. If he wants to sit down, unwind, and catch up on sports, then let him. As long as he is doing his manly duties, then it is fine. Give him his space.<br />
• Finally, do not become the clingy girl who nags her boyfriend all day about the 5Ws (who, when, where, why, and how). Do not become the insecure girlfriend because if you do, whatever reason he chose you will quickly dissipate, and he will eventually let you go. Not because you are not good enough, simply because you are insecure and annoying him. Be your own person by having a life of your own. Never revolve your life around a man. Be confident, assertive, and the naturally sexy girl that you are inside. Men dig women like that.<br />
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In summary, women have to stop having all these unrealistic expectations from men. We are all imperfect creatures with flaws. The only thing that matters is that you find someone who is going to love you unconditionally, treats you like a princess, and lifts you up. If you have someone like this in your life, then he’s a keeper. If not, let him go and move on. It’s that simple.</div>Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-45938686364702215722011-05-14T10:23:00.001-07:002011-05-20T06:32:24.647-07:00How to Make a Woman Falling in Love With You<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">A good way to get the woman you want to fall in love with you is by making her laugh. Many studies conclusively show that women appreciate a man that can make them laugh. Long term relationships often work out if the couple finds activities that they both enjoy. Other dating tips work off this simple <br />
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Before you try to meet a girl and try to make her laugh, you should first consider being yourself. Don't try to go overboard by pretending to be somebody that you are not. You will only come off as stiff and fake. Women are also able to recognize men who are only acting. For the sake of a lasting relationship, it is best to be who you really are. It makes you more relaxed and comfortable, and women respond to this kind of natural behavior.<br />
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When you meet a girl that you like, one way to get her attention is to tell her a joke. This is also a great way of breaking the tension. Find a joke that you personally think is funny. Just be careful about what you're talking about as there are also many ways to offend the ladies if you are careless and crass.<br />
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To start with, find a popular movie or television show that you like. Make a reference towards a funny scene or conversation that you remember. If she's also seen the movie, and if it's popular enough then it's likely that she did, then she'll be much more inclined to get into your conversation. Don't make the reference about a movie that is too recent, otherwise she might not have seen it. Stick to the classics and you should do fine.<br />
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Proceed with telling her about yourself. This part doesn't have to be boring as you can tell her about an incident in your work or college that might be funny. It can be a silly anecdote, but the point is to tell her something about your past while still keeping her amused.<br />
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If you are successful on your first date, chances are that you'll go on more nights out. Keep them fresh and always find something new and exciting to do. What's important is that you both have a fun time <br />
when you are both together.<br />
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There are other dating tips that you can use, but at the end of the day, it's about making her laugh and smile. A lasting relationship is one where both the guy and girl have fun.</div>Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-5615660392650583212011-05-14T10:05:00.001-07:002011-05-20T06:32:41.247-07:00How to safe your marriage today<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><br />
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Author: Gery Writer<br />
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When you're inside a relationship, you feel the world is perfect. It gives a sense of belongingness, satisfaction, and if that leads to marriage, it provides a lifelong companionship and pleasure. Marriage is a wonderful commitment between two partners. Relationship counselors, psychiatrists, assist the couple who have trouble at their marriage. Save my marriage today organizations can help the couples who're in marriage crisis or trouble, and enable them to to have a long lasting and fulfilling life.<br />
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Marriage is an understanding, an effort, equally distributed by both partners at times of stress or crisis, to make the ship of life sail on smoothly. Everyone get their own space and private emotions, that they long for their partners to understand and give them. It makes a married relationship tough when these expectations are not fulfilled, and when they are not given a priority. One leads to another, to cause trouble in their married life. This is a time for important decisions, for any hasty decision can result in a emotional trauma and affect your life forever.<br />
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It is crucial to take advice from professionals who are experts in such cases of troubles. As speaking with one another is only going to give raise to ego, conflicts and worsen the problem. People get married not for their physical or emotional needs, but it's also a wonderful sharing of every other's life and to have a healthy family, and get old together. It will include comprises, differences of opinions, and understanding one another's needs at the timely hours.<br />
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But love is a binding force, whether it is passion or the chemistry that binds them together, it definitely works and helps the partners to appreciate one another, and make them love more every day at different walks of their life. You will find issues, like working hours which does not permit the partners to spend more time with each other, sex related issues, battle of opinions, sometimes only a matter of unclear communication, can result in divorce.<br />
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Marriage surveys, particularly with celebrities and youth following them as icons really are a shocking truth today. Divorce rates are alarming, especially at the age ranges between 25 - 35 years. Infidelity appears to be a common issue and many people are facing the problem at their marriage at such an early age, which ends in total damage to themselves and future of children.<br />
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Romancing the partners appear to be a psychological factor. Many people who approach save my marriage today, have always had complaining about their partners not being intimate, or having lost need for sex, or not being passionate.<br />
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This is a serious threat emotionally, when it comes to the fact that the partners woo each other during their dating phase, however it slowly fades away after the wed lock. The reality of everyday living strike each and every marriage, and it is very important for partners to understand the need for one another physically. Intimacy not only solves the problem, however it develops a powerful bond emotionally between the partners, and it gives a sense of strong trust, along with a meaning to begin a family.<br />
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When they love their partners and when they want the wedding to work, it is best to have an independent counseling, and then after a couple of sessions, have a shared period and realize each other's mistakes, and faults. It is crucial to work on their very own mistakes to make themselves better persons, which usually will earn respect from their lovers.<br />
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About the Author:</div>Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-52072847645792639362011-04-16T21:09:00.001-07:002011-05-20T06:32:54.227-07:00Things which make your partner lose his feeling.<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">Here are some signs of a girl who can makeguys loss of taste, as quoted from Yourtango.<br />
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1. Having more than one relationship Some people have experienced associated with more than one person. Especially, to select future life partner. However, dealing withseveral partners at once, especially the only important physical relationships characterize the girl is only meant to have fun.<br />
2. Try to approach your boyfriend's friends as a tactic to get attention or made to feel jealous. This behaviour will make your boyfriend lose his feeling to you.<br />
3. Being in a relationship, but gave the phone number on the other guy you give hope to others when in a relationship but denied it for various reasons. There are times when girls still want to test if their charm has not faded and is able to attract the attention of others.<br />
5. Avoiding met to demonstrate the powerDisappear from circulation and hard to contact is the moment to a girl to show her strength. If the relationship went too fast and the girls wanted to evaluate it first, gives a better message than simply vanished.<br />
6. All the things he has done is not enough.According to the guy, he had enough to do many things to get your love. However,your attitude that makes him lose underestimate confident approaching you. If you also keep a sense, give thanks and enthusiasm for your attention.</div>Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-56227657476442727202011-04-16T08:49:00.001-07:002011-05-20T06:33:06.246-07:00how to be good lover<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">Want always to be loved your partner? Be a good<br />
lover. A good lover does not mean always <br />
obey the demand of your partner, or make<br />
sacrifices for the sake of the couple. Simply <br />
by doing simple things like giving special<br />
attention or participate in activities that become his hobby. Here are some tips you<br />
can do to please your partner, as quoted by<br />
the Times of India:<br />
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1. Join and Gather Together His friends <br />
do not <br />
always want both with him every time.<br />
Occasionally, take time to participate in <br />
activities with him/her and his/her friends. Know <br />
the environment where your partner socialized. If you <br />
can blend with his friends, he will judge you as an easy going person and want to<br />
be involved in the activities he enjoys.<br />
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2. Buy a Sports Match Tickets One <br />
way to make your partner is impressed<br />
bought tickets to watch football, basketball <br />
or his favorite sport. If you are not sports enthusiasts, there's no harm in giving<br />
two tickets to watch with his best friend. This treatment indicates that you wish he <br />
could have his own time, and can enjoy it <br />
without having to always be with you.<br />
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3. Dont buy cloth for your partner<br />
He can assume you do not like the way<br />
he dressed.<br />
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4. Send romantic message to your partner<br />
tell to your partner by SMS about how much fun<br />
your both date, or how romantic treatment of<br />
him to you on a date.<br />
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5. Keep the attitude<br />
o not over-indulgence in<br />
intimacy in public. Your partner may feel<br />
uncomfortable if you always hold, embrace <br />
or caress along the road. Other people will feel uncomfortable to see you both. This<br />
also applies if you and he fight, do not shout <br />
or cry in public. Find a quiet place to talk <br />
about the problem.<br />
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6. Make Meals While visiting his parents' house <br />
it helps if you bring small cakes<br />
homemade. It's a fairly simple effective <br />
way to take care your lover's mother.<br />
Provide home made food will be more<br />
special than giving the impression to leave food in a pastry shop.<br />
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Hope it will be useful for us.</div>Home designhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02235268948018238975noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7027816684527775134.post-16686472708288058872011-04-16T07:34:00.001-07:002011-05-20T06:33:22.035-07:00Durable Love Relationship<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">we always dreamed of having a lasting<br />
relationship. I'll give some tips to achieve <br />
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1. Be honest<br />
If there is something you dont like about your partner,just say it openly. You should say it when you are both alone.Discuss it carefully. Even it hurts,but it just for a while. It's better than you hold it in your heart,and then it will make you fight each other.<br />
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2. Be yourself<br />
Do not ever think to change yourself for your partner. be yourself is the best thing. The nature and <br />
appearance of you who make your partner loves you.<br />
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3. Be sincere<br />
do not ever expect him back what you<br />
already gave.<br />
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4. dont hide anything from your partner<br />
You don't have to lie about your friends to your partner.Tell to your partner with whom you ussually spend your time with.This will make your partner feels comfort and not worried to think where are you whole the time.<br />
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5. say sorry<br />
Forgiveness has limitation. But,as human, we have to say sorry for our mistake. <br />
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6. Surprised your partner<br />
Do not hesitate to give your partner something to surprise him/her. Buy something, and give it to him/her suddenly. Your partner must be love you more.<br />
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7. Care<br />
Care to your partner. Always be with him/her anytime he/she needs you. <br />
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8. Family<br />
Try to get closer with your partner's family. And take your partner to your family too. <br />
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9. Dont be posessif<br />
It's really sucks to see your partner along<br />
with others, chatting, laughing, etc.. But the <br />
possessive attitude will cause your partner <br />
to feel the eyes of surveillance by you, and<br />
it will stretch your relationship. <br />
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10. Respect Privacy. <br />
Although you and your<br />
partner are open for anything, but not all things can be discussed together. Respect her/his privacy as <br />
well. What we need to know and what we<br />
should not interfere.<br />
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Hope your love relationship will be lasting forever. Thanks for reading<br />
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